Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Friend Or Acquaintance?

This blog is makes me wonder about how women truly see their male "friends".  As y'all know I really don't see men & women being friends like that unless under certain circumstances.  The thing is what if a woman you used to talk to or date ends up just being cool.  Now being that things have become platonic, y'all should be able to support each other in new relationships.  This would be the "logical" step, however I've noticed with some "friends" that this is the very opposite.  Some have wanted to keep tabs for their own particular reasons, some might be still interested.  Others might be a little jealous cause I have someone I care about.  The thing is I'm not going to treat anyone different due to being in a relationship.  Everyone knows I'm a music head, so when I expect support with an endeavor, why give me a bogus reason for not supporting?  Unless you was never really into me as a whole person.  Then for the most part you are an acquaintance, so we are only cool to a point.  Having deep conversations about fam & life is really not needed. I guess for myself I forgot not everyone is genuine on here even though we chop it up regularly?   I know why that is though, & it just shows some ladies illogical minds.   Just be genuine with me, I won't pass judgment I just might give you the sideways face though.

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