Whassup people. Just recently I got into an indirect argument with a female. Apparently I can be harsh with my opinions, even though it's an opinion. Now the thing about me is, I can talk about anyone yet still be cool with them if I know their true character. A couple of my friends and I mean really good friends are pathological liars. Does this mean I hate them, not at all. I just know that what they say is 50% bullshit or hyped-up nonsense. So I respect everyone no matter what your true character is. One thing I know is that we all have character flaws but it doesn't mean we can't be cool. There is a young lady that I know, who's cool but she is a bit "fast". Apparently she liked one of my homies & my homie asked about her. Now being that I know her past somewhat should I spare him the news or be honest? A friend of mine suggested I stay out of it, but then if my homie asks me about her can I really say nothing? So I ended up letting him know the deal & so he knew how to act accordingly. Long story short she finds out I said something & feels some type-of-way around me now.
So things turned out well, but when I was having a conversation with other folks. The debate came up if you should be honest or leave well enough alone. Anyone who knows me knows I don't support what I call "janky behavior". It's when a person is being flaky, even though others know their true nature. Would I be the villain if I spoil a potential relationship? Even if it's founded on a potential lie? I only wanted my friend to know what he's getting into before he founds out the hard way. Now I know some ladies like to run from their "skankish" behavior & think it disappears cause they don't talk about it. Most men have a particular image of their wife, girl, or female they are dating & women don't want to shatter that image because of our fragile egos. However it doesn't mean a man can't handle it, he just may have a hard time accepting it. So the question is: Is this young lady mad at me for being honest, or for potentially embarrassing her? The moral of the story is be careful who you lie to, someone might just blow up your spot. BOOM!!!
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