"Fresh" From A Distance (Myspace Re-Post)

         Whassup blogverse.   I was thinking quite recently about some of the ladies I have the pleasure (& displeasure) of speaking to online.  One thing I've seen that is consistent, is that ladies who are long distance are way more friendly.  I've pondered a few reasons why: 1) The distance is a safe barrier.  2) Things can progress without pressure of sex or being physical.  3) You can pretty much say what you want, and no one is the wiser.   So as we see with all these new social networking sites like Myspace, Facebook, Blackplanet, and my funny fave Fullfiggas.com. 

             

         There's a lot more flirting, and sometimes outright booty flashing.  Some of these sites have allowed people to do or say what they feel can attract a person to them.  I've seen some interesting photos from ladies, that make me say whoa.  But when I flirt with intent, some flirt back while others try to play real serious.  Should I really take you seriously with a whole "booty" portfolio.  Now let's say we have what it takes to meet.  Do things change when I get off the plane, bus, car, or train?? Cause you was talkin' greasy to get my attention.   I mean it's cool to flirt to a point.  But then it gets lame if nothing is really going to happen.  Is it just a means to get attention and that's all.  If so can you knock it if a guy puts a "pee-pee" pic in your inbox.  He's just trying to get noticed just like you. 

            

         I also ask the question, is the woman as "friendly" with local men?  Cause for me, in NYC the sistas are real uptight with meeting.   Even though you might have seen a pic with their "boobies" out.  They will act shy (LOL).   Is that just eye candy to get me to your page or are you a freak lady?  Stop frontin' if you aren't and let the man appreciate who you really are.  You know us men will say some outlandish sh*t, especially on the net cause there's no real consequence.   So the 

point I'm making is this, are you just as friendly in person or just on the keyboard.

(Original Draft Jan. 11, 2008)