I've notice a particular trend by some single ladies out there. Some of my fellas may agree that they may date a woman for a particular amount of time. All of a sudden she just falls off, you aren't angry just confused why. If you do get in contact with her, you find out she's either gotten back with her ex or started dating someone she spoke to before she met you. I call this the "substitution jutsu". The term comes from the animated Naruto series on the Cartoon Network. Fellas be aware, most of the time you are just a temporary fix. She's just killing time if she isn't really doing much socially. So you might get caught up into taking her out or trying to get close. However some ladies may say "I'm only looking for friends" if that's the case, go dutch. So if she expects to pay like it's a date and cops an attitude. Don't stress cause she's only a "friend". Ladies like attention, even from guys they don't like. Also make sure you engage her in convo about you and her. Always know where you stand. Is this the way of a gentleman, of course not. But it does help weed out the bullshit. Remember fellas, money you can get back, time you can't.
(Originally drafted Feb. 11, 2008)
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