Does A Man Really Want A Bi-Female?

        What goes on y'all.  I was reading a story in the New York Post (yeah I know).  The story 

was about the fact that Busta Rhymes' ex-girlfriend was cut off after "becoming" a 

lesbian.   I was thinking about this and showed me something.  Can a guy really keep a 

woman who is "bi".  I don't think so because she will never really be satisfied with just 

you alone.  Now as a man you have to make a decision of if you will let your woman sleep 

with other women or if you can "share" your woman with a lady who calls her "wifey".   

That may  not only be a blow to a man's ego but, does conducting a relationship 

while being monogamous considered cheating.  

  

      If the gentleman doesn't believe in that, should he keep the woman around?  I cite the 

song "Ms. Fat Booty" by Mos Def, in which he finds out the woman who he had relationship 

with now was doing lesbian acts and he was disgusted.   Some men have taken advantage of 

their woman being "bi" and now invite others to their bed.  I feel that is tainting your bed 

with bad karma.   I've heard of stories of "bi-women"  who got another female to sleep with 

themselves and their man.  Next thing you know a break-up because of him sleeping with 

the other female without the girlfriend.   On the flipside of that is a man turns his girl onto 

females, now she ends up dealing with females full-time.   So I look at it in this way if there's 

an emotional tie, does a man want a "bi" female?  However I'm not a hater if 2 "bi" women 

want to get at me.  Why you ask, cause there's no emotional tie, so no drama afterwards.

Original Draft written July 4th, 2006

            Now for me I've dealt with "bi-sexual" women & it was interesting.  Some talked that 


sharing stuff but we weren't serious, so it never got personal.  However if the interest is 


much deeper, that crazy ass bi talk is out of the window. I respect anyone who can be 


monogamous with someone who has an alternative lifestyle & isn't tempted to step outside 


of their relationship.I just wonder what's the limits, especially if a 3rd party is involved?  


Cause I've heard of the"Drew Barrymore" rules, which make no sense.  So where do you 


draw the line?  It's hardenough to deal with 1 person, but imagine two.  Damn