As I was hanging out this past Labor Day, me & my homie Superking Armor were hanging out we happen to end up in front of Webster Hall. It seems that thirstiness has become the norm. Now I understand it's warm & the ladies are half dressed. However there's a way to be cool about it. Some of these acted like they just came home, so they were just talking to any & everything. That's real corny in my book. It's one thing to "kick game" & another to do surveillance on a female in a club. I'm guessing they come from that generation of men raised by single moms who didn't get enough attention. At what point do you sacrifice dignity just for a bit of attention from a lady. See how your dad failed you, he didn't give you insight to talking to women. Therefore you got these men out here who can't take a no or at least don't accept one. The scary thing is that's considered the norm by a lot of men now. Hounding & chasing have become viable tactics of the "thirst-mongers"
Now let me admit, I at one point was a thirsty dude myself. It came in my younger years from about high school to my early 20's due to the lack of females in my life. I wasn't super popular or hung with an influential crowd, It was my "Wonder Years" of how to talk to women properly. There's always an awkward period of knowing what to say & what not to say. The key to me growing was to be around others that didn't make mistake & to learn from them. Sometimes you need to backtrack, figure out, retool, & then reset.
I still made mistakes along the way when it came to meeting women though. I just try not to be prideful and act like I have it all together. If you act like that you are doomed to fail. It seems that's the issue though. A lot of guys don't want advice about dealing with females. Some just lack the proper guidance & never actually got it. This is why you see guys on the internet making angry confessional videos. They were probably real thirsty & then lost the female, so those hurt feelings manifest into a video. I've been hurt too, fortunately I didn't have a webcam to relay those hurt feelings to the world.
There however is an even worse affect created by thirsty dudes, PANDERING. This has become the new tactic of the thirsty. They tell females everything their ego wants to hear. However it's very undeserving to a female you just met. So now you have a young lady believing she's the best thing walking, cause you want her phone number? Seriously fellas come on. Man the fuck up please, & the worst part is some of these females ain't even dimes. Is sex in that high of demand now that guys are chasing sea donkeys & white donkeys with waffle cones on their foreheads. Time to change up your tactics, cause remember a man must have his dignity in order to have respect.
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